~ 罗伦斯@部落~

一个人

2007-10-27T02:32:00.000+08:00

享受

一个人的世界

情有独钟

享受

一个人的生活

耳根清静

一个人看的电影

一个人的window shopping

一个人的晚餐

一个人对着家里的四面墙

一个人静静地听音乐

有谁愿意加入我的行列呢？

咯纶斯

无题

2007-10-23T18:55:00.000+08:00

昨天淋到雨过后不舒服回家休息

有些同事很细心的给与关怀

“你还好吗有发烧吗”

“不好意思昨天有突发事情才call你的打扰你休息”

有些则漠不关心说话有刺的

应该是给骨头吭到吧

“老板不在你就开始乱了敢跑回家”

王八蛋你不出声没人说你哑巴的

咯纶斯

别傻了

2007-09-30T03:20:00.000+08:00

别傻了

我不是什么所谓的爱情健将

我所受的伤并不会如科幻片一般瞬间愈合

我只是一个整晚听着曾国辉的《分手那一天》

把自己的痛苦和著他的歌声

一起蒸发在脑海里的脆弱男子

在心理呐喊着想呐喊的呐喊

在眼里哭泣着想哭泣的哭泣

心碎了一地等待我去扫干净

而我只是卷曲在不知名的角落舔舐着伤口

这时候我的无助显得晶莹剔透

咯纶斯

珍惜

2007-09-29T02:52:00.000+08:00

学会珍惜

是一门很深的学问

很多时候

发生在我们周遭的事情

很多人以为那是理所当然

^这件事应该发生的^

^我应该拥有你的^

^你应该这样对我^

当我们习惯了它的存在

我们就会开始埋怨

^也许这件事不应该发生的^

^也许我不应该拥有你^

^也许你不应该这样对我^

当有一天

我们失去了某些事物某些人的时候

自己再回头看看

原来当初是我们太幸福了

身在福中不知福

而忽略了自己一直以来所拥有的

朋友们

不要以为一切都是理所当然

珍惜自己所拥有的

咯纶斯笔

退一步 ~ 海阔天空

2007-09-27T21:33:00.000+08:00

~ 退一步海阔天空 ~

路过

2007-09-19T01:16:00.000+08:00

也许曾经是你的朋友

也许曾经是你的伴侣

也许曾经是你的同学

也许曾经丰富了你的人生

也许曾经互相扶持及鼓励

也许曾经留下了弥补不了的遗憾

因为我只是一个路过暂停的小人物

咯纶斯笔

请赐我...

2007-09-17T02:05:00.000+08:00

请赐我刀枪不入

把一切烦恼拒于千里之外

请赐我冷漠无情

人不为己天诛地灭

请赐我忘情水

忘掉人世间的感情包袱

请赐我假面具

伪装自己的最佳方法

请赐我魔术棒

变走这虚拟的地球村

回到最原始的生活方式

咯纶斯笔

我要钱...

2007-09-12T04:34:00.000+08:00

苯苯的咯纶斯

真得那么不堪一击吗？

那么脆弱的咩...

人生总是那么多的挑战

我要把它一一击倒

放猪过来吧...

用脚趾算一算

上个礼拜看了四场戏

两场red box 买了一套衣服

钱包大出血现在还得省钱度日呢

朋友们不要约我了

已经计划好我的省钱大计了

因为要存钱还给朋友

外面欠了一大堆屁股债

（朋友们，不是说你们的钱是屁股钱哦，形容词而已嘛，哈哈！）

当然在这里要谢谢你们的帮忙

如果不是你们我早就饿死街头了嘻嘻！

小弟在这献上无限的感激...

当然你们不要催我还钱吖很压力的...

钱啊...钱啊...我要钱...

下一片天空 - 曾国辉

2007-09-11T05:57:00.001+08:00

你说看不见未来　在哪里

其实未来一直在　你手里

听仔细　心中的旋律　那是最诚恳的声音

要为自己呼吸

至少还有我　懂得关心

别在乎我的哀愁　我只是一个路过暂停的小人物

我只要你快乐就够

别在乎我的哀愁　不要害怕继续勇敢地往前走

就像世界下一片天空

我可以为你画出美丽的彩虹

新的总要来　旧的总要走

停留不一定永久

Woo....

别在乎我的哀愁　我只是一个路过暂停的小人物

我只要你快乐就够

别在乎我的哀愁　不要害怕继续勇敢地往前走

就像世界下一片天空

请珍惜你依靠的所有

如果有一天你还记得我

我还是你最高的高峰

Just want to share with You....

2007-09-07T16:10:00.000+08:00

TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB. Sorry, I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is." Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".

NO POINTING FINGERS A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.

CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous, sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband, because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.

NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another, or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..

RIGHT SPEECH There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other, we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted, "Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me. Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered, "You should appreciate that you married me. Other wise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.

PERSONAL PERCEPTION Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison. A couple bought a donkey from the market. On the way home, a boy commented, "Very stupid. Why neither of them rides on the donkey? "Upon hearing that, the husband let the wife ride on the donkey. He walked besides them. Later, an old man saw it and commented, "The husband is the head of family. How can the wife ride on the donkey while the husband is on foot?" Hearing this, the wife quickly got down and let the husband ride on the donkey. Further on the way home, they met an old Lady. She commented, "How can the man ride on the donkey but let the wife walk. He is no gentleman." The husband thus quickly asked the wife to join him on the donkey. Then, they met a young man. He commented, "Poor donkey, how can you hold up the weight of two persons. They are cruel to you." Hearing that, the husband and wife immediately climbed down from the donkey and carried it on their shoulders. It seems to be the only choice left. Later, on a narrow bridge, the donkey was frightened and struggled. They lost their balance and fell into the river. You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future. Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..

BE PATIENT This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, and hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, "Daddy, I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide. Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.

"Good Life starts only when you stop wanting a better One"
"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away"